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It’s all you, all the time…

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If only everybody else…
 
…would just let you do what you want to do!
 
That’s an understandable request.
 
If you’re 10 years old.
 
But the good news is, now that you’re an adult, no one is standing in your way.
 
Unless you’ve put them there.
 
Have you?
 
Have you – consciously or unconsciously – pulled people into your life and given them the “power” to dampen your spirit or to derail your opportunities?
 
Have you – consciously or unconsciously – created situations that seem to limit your options or seem to make your future look bleak?
 
I know, that sounds harsh of me to say.
 
And I know it may feel like circumstances in your life are being thrust upon you.
 
But if you’re reading this right now, I’m 99.999% certain that you (especially you) are not a victim of your life.
 
And that’s tremendously fabulous news!
 
Because it means that the changes you desire right now – no matter how big or how small – can happen once you are willing to give yourself the permission to make them (or allow them to) happen.
 
The permission to put your agenda first.
The permission to make room for what you want.
The permission to take time to refuel when you need to.
 
Now that you’re an adult, it’s time for you to lead YOU.
 
 
Keep betting on yourself – I believe in you,

 
 

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So many useful nuggets, so little time…

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And now…
 
…a word from our sponsor.
 
(Just kidding!)
 
Well, kind of.
 
As the “manufacturer” of these weekly Golden Nuggets, I just wanted to make sure you didn’t think I expected you to be stuffing each and every one of them into your brain.
 
Even though it totally makes my day that you are watching these videos…
 
…what really excites me is when you select one of these concepts, roll it around in your brain for awhile, and apply it to your life until in drops down into your gut and becomes a part of you.
 
That’s when the magic happens.
 
Sometimes a Golden Nugget will resonate so strongly with you that its wisdom will drop straight down into your gut and you will fully and immediately own it.
 
(Don’t you love it when that happens?)
 
But more often, the application and integration of each of these ideas will take time.
 
(The Golden Nuggets I’ve delivered to you in less than a year are personal insights I’ve been discovering and integrating throughout the past 20 years!)
 
Gently allow your processing to take the time it needs to take. There’s no rush – even one fully integrated Golden Nugget is better than none.
 
And only by fully integrating the insight of a Golden Nugget into your life can you experience its powerful, positive impact.
 
 
Keep betting on yourself – I believe in you,

 
 

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Have you been thinking a lot about the things you have been thinking a lot about?

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Are you exhausted…
 
…from all your positive thinking?
 
LOL – I hear ya – constantly trying to making your thoughts “behave” is like trying to heard cats (or unscramble an egg).
 
Some good news for you:
 
Thinking a negative thought (even a few negative thoughts every day) won’t hurt you.
 
Or jinx you.
Or screw with your karma.
Or attract bad things to you.
 
You can’t help thinking thoughts.
 
(Like your vital organs, your mind is active 24/7. And your mind loves variety – the good, the bad and the ugly!)
 
The trouble only starts when you hang on to your negative thoughts and don’t let them pass on though.
 
It’s your dwelling on (not your thinking of) them which drags your spirit, energy, and mojo down, down, down.
 
Dwelling on thoughts that make you feel bad (or angry, depressed, jealous, hurt, etc.) is, by far, the largest energy leak that you have (and by “you” I mean “every one of us”).
 
If you are dedicated to making your dreams come true, then you must also be dedicated to doing the inner growth work necessary to loosen your grip on the thoughts and beliefs that are eating you up or weighing you down.
 
(Now that’s independence!)
 
 
Keep betting on yourself – I believe in you,

 
 

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