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Wait, I thought this was “it”…

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America loooooooves
 
…ACHIEVEMENT!
 
We are encouraged to plug into our national rhythm of doing and getting and doing and getting (and we are encouraged stay there).
 
But what no one ever seems to mention is that sometimes not getting IS exactly what’s supposed to happen.
 
 
Over the past few decades I’ve learned (the difficult, painful way) that…
 
…hard work doesn’t necessarily produce anything that looks like typical “success.”
 
…feeling called to do something doesn’t necessarily produce anything that looks like typical “success.”
 
…doing the thing you know you are supposed to do Next, doesn’t necessarily produce anything that looks like typical “success.”
 
 
And that can suck. It can also confuse, frustrate, and mystify.
 
 
The other thing I learned (the slow, accepting way) is:
Don’t confuse a calling with a promise of success.
 
 
Callings feel SO RIGHT because they are.
 
They are your Next – meaning they are your Next Step to developing, growing, maturing, and expanding in the ways that you need to in order to realize your full potential and biggest dreams.
 
But America mythologizes achieving as fast, continuous, linear, and obvious.
 
Thus, we can get humbled and disappointed when we misinterpret our feeling of “rightness” as a signal that we’re about to experience fast, continuous, linear, obvious achievement.
 
Sometimes that will happen. (Whew!)
 
But if it doesn’t, don’t panic just yet.
Don’t sell out just yet.
Don’t cave in just yet.
 
Keep betting on yourself and, eventually, I promise, you will win that bet.
 
 
Keep betting on yourself – I believe in you,

 
 
P.S.
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When I grow up I want to be a…

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You can achieve anything you want…
 
…true or false?
 
Both, actually.
 
It all depends – it always depends – on your perspective.
 
You may not (ever) become the You you want to be.
 
But, if you get in touch with and listen to your inner callings and guidance and gifts from the Universe…
 
…you can become the You you are meant to be.
 
And, as you grow and grow and grow in that direction, I promise that your life will develop the textures of all that you desire.
 
 
Keep betting on yourself – I believe in you,

 
 

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A tale that makes you feel tall or small?

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The most important stories…
 
…are the ones we tell ourselves.
 
Because those are the stories that either reinforce or deflect the notions, beliefs, and narratives that the people in (and the circumstances of) our life would like us to accept as “true.”
 
But what IS “true” really?
 
Usually, “true” is just the story we choose to believe.
 
Are you currently telling – and believing – any broke-down, sad-sack stories about yourself?
 
Why?
 
If you need more pep in your step, the very least you can do is to tell yourself stories that make you feel energized, not deflated.
 
I mean, why the heck not?
 
YOU have so much more power over how your life feels than you are probably giving yourself credit for.
 
As Henry Ford wisely noted:
 
Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t – you’re right.
 
 
Keep betting on yourself – I believe in you,

 
 

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