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How helpful can a few conversations actually be?
Verrrrrry.
Especially if you’re in a spin cycle.
You’re in a spin cycle when you know that you want to (or have to) make some decisions and possibly changes… but, right now, the only thing moving is the relentless swirl of your concerns, fears, and hopes sloshing through your mind.
As you spin – during each day, during each night (during each stop at each traffic light) – my guess is you can feel yourself hemorrhaging energy.
Some feelings you might be feeling: trapped, ground down, adrift, overwhelmed…
…but maybe there’s also some nervous excitement, some pulsing desire, and some impatience about getting this next chapter of your life started already (which would be easier to do if you had some clarity around the best next steps to take… and a little extra courage to take them.)
This spin cycle has probably prompted you to have some conversations with your smartest, most compassionate friends.
(Good!)
You’ve talked and they’ve listened. You’ve talked and they’ve offered advice. You’ve talked and they’ve thrown you a personal pep rally (or two). Together, you’ve been spinning through your cycle, over and over and over and over.
(But at least you’ve been reaching out which is always a great thing to do when you feel stuck.)
And now, you’ve found your way here.
And, naturally, you might be wondering: “How is having yet another conversation going to move the needle in any way?”
Well, for one thing, these next conversations will be with me.
I will hear your story and connect your dots in a very different way – also with the intelligence and compassion your friends provide, but adding objectivity, discernment, experience, and a massive toolkit (of helpful tactics, approaches, and strategies).
I will coax out answers that are already inside of you and stretch you beyond your own beliefs.
I will translate your ideas into actions and shift the thoughts and things that are impeding your progress.
I have developed an exceptional depth and breadth of skills and insights during two decades of listening to, guiding, and supporting hundreds of big-hearted humans through the complex circumstances of their personal and professional lives.
Which means our conversations will be ones that end with you gaining some much-needed clarity – which will feel like sipping a tall, cool glass of relief.
Clarity slows your spin cycle waaaay down.
Why?
Because having a clear, effective plan of action exerts a kind of gravitational pull over your thoughts.
Rather than spinning around and colliding with one another, your thoughts will begin to coalesce around your plan. And, as your thoughts are pulled into alignment, you’ll become more inspired to take action and you’ll begin to feel more powerful, purposeful, and peaceful than you have in a good long while.
The torture and tumult of the spin cycle is usually your soul’s way of poking you to say: “Hey, it’s time to get some help with all of this.”
How helpful can a few conversations actually be?
Verrrrrry.
Especially if you’re in a spin cycle.
You’re in a spin cycle when you know that you want to (or have to) make some decisions and possibly changes… but, right now, the only thing moving is the relentless swirl of your concerns, fears, and hopes sloshing through your mind.
As you spin – during each day, during each night (during each stop at each traffic light) – my guess is you can feel yourself hemorrhaging energy.
Some feelings you might be feeling: trapped, ground down, adrift, overwhelmed…
…but maybe there’s also some nervous excitement, some pulsing desire, and some impatience about getting this next chapter of your life started already (which would be easier to do if you had some clarity around the best next steps to take… and a little extra courage to take them.)
This spin cycle has probably prompted you to have some conversations with your smartest, most compassionate friends.
(Good!)
You’ve talked and they’ve listened. You’ve talked and they’ve offered advice. You’ve talked and they’ve thrown you a personal pep rally (or two). Together, you’ve been spinning through your cycle, over and over and over and over.
(But at least you’ve been reaching out which is always a great thing to do when you feel stuck.)
And now, you’ve found your way here.
And, naturally, you might be wondering: “How is having yet another conversation going to move the needle in any way?”
Well, for one thing, these next conversations will be with me.
I will hear your story and connect your dots in a very different way – also with the intelligence and compassion your friends provide, but adding objectivity, discernment, experience, and a massive toolkit (of helpful tactics, approaches, and strategies).
I will coax out answers that are already inside of you and stretch you beyond your own beliefs.
I will translate your ideas into actions and shift the thoughts and things that are impeding your progress.
I have developed an exceptional depth and breadth of skills and insights during two decades of listening to, guiding, and supporting hundreds of big-hearted humans through the complex circumstances of their personal and professional lives.
Which means our conversations will be ones that end with you gaining some much-needed clarity – which will feel like sipping a tall, cool glass of relief.
Clarity slows your spin cycle waaaay down.
Why?
Because having a clear, effective plan of action exerts a kind of gravitational pull over your thoughts.
Rather than spinning around and colliding with one another, your thoughts will begin to coalesce around your plan. And, as your thoughts are pulled into alignment, you’ll become more inspired to take action and you’ll begin to feel more powerful, purposeful, and peaceful than you have in a good long while.
The torture and tumult of the spin cycle is usually your soul’s way of poking you to say: “Hey, it’s time to get some help with all of this.”
How helpful can a few conversations actually be?
Verrrrrry.
Especially if you’re in a spin cycle.
You’re in a spin cycle when you know that you want to (or have to) make some decisions and possibly changes… but, right now, the only thing moving is the relentless swirl of your concerns, fears, and hopes sloshing through your mind.
As you spin – during each day, during each night (during each stop at each traffic light) – my guess is you can feel yourself hemorrhaging energy.
Some feelings you might be feeling: trapped, ground down, adrift, overwhelmed…
…but maybe there’s also some nervous excitement, some pulsing desire, and some impatience about getting this next chapter of your life started already (which would be easier to do if you had some clarity around the best next steps to take… and a little extra courage to take them.)
This spin cycle has probably prompted you to have some conversations with your smartest, most compassionate friends.
(Good!)
You’ve talked and they’ve listened. You’ve talked and they’ve offered advice. You’ve talked and they’ve thrown you a personal pep rally (or two). Together, you’ve been spinning through your cycle, over and over and over and over.
(But at least you’ve been reaching out which is always a great thing to do when you feel stuck.)
And now, you’ve found your way here.
And, naturally, you might be wondering: “How is having yet another conversation going to move the needle in any way?”
Well, for one thing, these next conversations will be with me.
I will hear your story and connect your dots in a very different way – also with the intelligence and compassion your friends provide, but adding objectivity, discernment, experience, and a massive toolkit (of helpful tactics, approaches, and strategies).
I will coax out answers that are already inside of you and stretch you beyond your own beliefs.
I will translate your ideas into actions and shift the thoughts and things that are impeding your progress.
I have developed an exceptional depth and breadth of skills and insights during two decades of listening to, guiding, and supporting hundreds of big-hearted humans through the complex circumstances of their personal and professional lives.
Which means our conversations will be ones that end with you gaining some much-needed clarity – which will feel like sipping a tall, cool glass of relief.
Clarity slows your spin cycle waaaay down.
Why?
Because having a clear, effective plan of action exerts a kind of gravitational pull over your thoughts.
Rather than spinning around and colliding with one another, your thoughts will begin to coalesce around your plan. And, as your thoughts are pulled into alignment, you’ll become more inspired to take action and you’ll begin to feel more powerful, purposeful, and peaceful than you have in a good long while.
The torture and tumult of the spin cycle is usually your soul’s way of poking you to say: “Hey, it’s time to get some help with all of this.”
A container of 90 minutes gives us room to begin exploring, processing, and planning.
My specialty is diving deep with you (not just downloading generalized info from my brain to yours).
Some people book a single session to see how they like my style – before committing to a full 12-month Leap Year with me.
Others book monthly or quarterly sessions to add guidance, structure, and accountability to their year.
Clients I’ve worked with in the past often book a session or two whenever they need to discuss specific projects or troubleshoot unexpected twists and turns.
All of the above are excellent uses of these strategy sessions.
“She’s a spectacular listener – and, because of that, it really allowed me to go deep, to get honest, and to own some of the things that I really could be doing for myself.”
Katya Lidsky Friedman, actress, writer, and host of The Animal That Changed You podcast