Technically, this is the third time I have “started” this blog. A little part of me is rather embarrassed about this. But the other (wiser) part of me is learning, more and more, to trust that things in life usually happen in their own perfect time. (Despite our ideas of what we want and what we think will be best for us.)

When I first plunged into the blogosphere in January 2007, I was still in the thick of writing my book. My decision to start the blog then was based on the fact that the latest restructuring of my website was complete and, since there was a section for a blog, there should be a blog! But did I really feel like writing a blog? No. Work on my book and my monthly column was completely filling my plate and, honestly, the blog commitment felt like a heavy ball and chain. My decision to do it is a perfect example of me ignoring my own good advice and trying to stuff something into my life just because I thought I “should” be doing it – even though my gut was clearly telling me otherwise.

Would the blog feed my focus? Most definitely. Was there room for it in my flowerpot back then? No way.

There still wasn’t room for it six months later in June of 2007, when I decided to give it another go. This decision was even less sound – motivated entirely by the guilt and embarrassment I felt about “letting down” all of the well-wishers who greeted my posts in January. Here I was again, expending energy to paddle against the current of life instead of surrendering my will and going with the flow. Not suprisingly, the blog capsized again.

So I waited. (And I worried too, but at least I waited.) I waited until I got the message from my gut that the time to start was right. When July 2008 began, I could tell I was ready: Whenever I contemplated the blog, I felt completely different about it, mentally and physically. The excitement of “starting an adventure” replaced the dread of “adding another chore.”

My intent for what I want to share with you remains the same. I plan for this space to become a collection of examples, advice, and resources that will help you understand the pivotal roles focus, strategic planning, networking, organization, and marketing play in the building of successful careers. Learning how to use these tools will definitely help you get where you want to go.